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Developing Yourself: How to Heal Your Inner Child through Reflection and Action

Updated: May 12, 2023

Week 2 of Developing Yourself: The Meaning of Inner Shadow Work, Its Rewards, and 10 weeks of Digging deeper in my Inner self Challenge.



This week, let's delve a little deeper into the concept of our "inner child," including what it is, how to identify it, and, most importantly, how to repair it. If you want assistance with any of this, make sure to schedule your free session as soon as possible. Keep in mind that Way of the Wise Owl is a non-profit organization; hence, nothing will be put up for sale once this event has concluded. When I went through so much in my life, and every scenario I was blessed, what I have to offer is more than gratitude and love; you can't fathom how privileged I am to be able to assist you in whatever way I can. What I have to offer is more than gratitude and love.

Working with one's inner child entails what, exactly?

Using introspection to connect with one's "inner child" and work through painful memories from one's past is an example of "strive with one's inner child." It's a method for addressing the habitual responses that stem from early experiences of physical and/or emotional mistreatment.


Psychological approaches like attachment theory, physical therapy, Jungian psychology, and psychotherapy all find a place in the process of working with one's inner child. To heal one's inner child, it's crucial to accept the idea that you aren't just one person; rather, you are a collection of self from various points in your life and different stages of development.


How do you define your "inner child"?

One's "inner child" is the part of their identity that forms when they reflect on and process their formative years. A person's "inner child" might take on positive or negative traits, depending on their upbringing and life circumstances.

In contrast to someone who experienced catastrophic events as a child and retains the wounds of those experiences in their inner child, a person who had a joyful childhood may be able to exhibit their inner child through their imagination and creativity. Some psychologists believe that the term "inner child" encompasses more than just memories of one's formative years.


The Importance of Putting Your Inner Child First

In order to overcome the effects of past trauma and go forward with life, it is essential to heal one's inner child. There are several stages to the mending process, but one of the most important is discovering where undesirable habits first began. To access one's pain in a constructive and compassionate way, healing one's inner child can be helpful.


The goal of working for one's "inner child" is to help the patient gain insight into his or her own needs, behavioral patterns, and sources of stress. Reconnecting with your "inner child" can improve your mental health by fostering a deeper feeling of self-compassion.


How to Approach Your Inner Child for the First Time

Patients undergoing inner child work need to be patient and reflective in order to heal. Take into account the steps outlined below to stop engaging in self-defeating actions and begin healing your inner child.


Master the art of coping with stress. Healing your broken child requires a multifaceted approach to treatment, which is what inner child work does. You should look at several coping mechanisms to find the one that works best for you.


Common methods include talking to one's younger self, engaging in art therapy, meditating, and even acting out one's parenting fantasies.


Learn to identify your unmet wants. Keep an eye out for the stressors in your daily life. Find out what situations or people remind you of bad times in your childhood. Visualization and shadow work are common psychotherapeutic techniques for getting in touch with and meeting the needs of your inner child. These methods can be helpful if used in conjunction with professional therapy. In therapy, you and your therapist will discuss your biological family, your relationship with your caretakers, and any traumatic experiences that may have affected your inner child. Discovering the origin of your suffering can help you understand the feelings of your "inner child" and meet those needs that have gone unfulfilled.

Increase your awareness of who you are. Regular introspection leads one to a deeper understanding of one's younger self, making self-discovery a crucial aspect of working with one's inner child. Recognizing the impact your grief has on your behavior and decisions is an important step toward healing from past trauma. Enhancing one's feeling of self-worth requires introspection and the development of a keener emotional awareness.

Take care of yourself. Prioritize engaging in pursuits that make you happy. Spending time and effort on creative pursuits might help adults reconnect with their inner kid. Setting aside time every day to focus on one's own wants and needs is an essential component of learning how to love oneself and giving oneself the time to heal.


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